Sunday, May 3, 2009

Andrea, Dustin, and Avery Miller


This is such great news that I had to post something on my blog about it. I have a dear, close friend that I went to college with and have stayed tight with ever since. My buddy Andrea have gone through a lot together and we have become very close because it took us both a long while to have a family. Andrea and I both went through miscarriages together and cried over our disappointments. Andrea and her sweet husband finally felt prompted to look into adoption through LDS Family Services and shortly after, a dear birth mother picked them to be the parents of her child. It's been such a great experience to watch Andrea as her dream unfolded before her eyes. Finally she was receiving her chance to become the thing she wanted to be the most, a mother! She and her hubby had suffered for far to long and her time was long overdue. I have watched as their daughter finally joined their family and I have seen Andrea become an excellent mother and I have seen her life shine with happiness as her little Avery has entered their home.

Yesterday Todd and I had the awesome opportunity to witness Andrea, Dustin, and Avery be sealed together for eternity in the Draper Temple. I have never been to a family sealing and by far, it was one of the most touching things I have been a part of. To see a little family be sealed for time and all eternity was one of the most beautiful things I have witnessed. Finally Andrea and Dustin are whole and now Avery can receive the blessings of an eternal family. I hope someday little Avery realizes how lucky she is! She was blessed into a home where she was wanted dearly, where she is loved, where she will always be free from abuse and neglect, and where she will be taught the gospel. I am so thankful we have temples and for the plan of our Heavenly Father. This life is truly all about families and I am thankful to have witnessed something so sweet and precious. I am so happy for the Millers and that they are finally a family forever!

Life with a baby


It's amazing how much you can love your child. Already Gabbie has both of us wrapped tightly around her little finger and both of us would do anything for her. Gabbie is a typical newborn sleeping about 3 hours and then wanting to eat and then not sleeping at night. I know we will get used to this and this is only temporary so I'm trusting what everyone keeps telling us that things will get better. Already there are a ton of things I love about her and I know as she gets older, we will find more and more things about her that will make us smile.

What I love about Gabbie:
-She loves to cuddle and be held very tight and close to me.
-When she wakes up in the morning, she and I have staring contests. I love looking into her big blue eyes.
-She hates to fart and poop and makes the funniest sounds when she is pushing
-She HAS to always have something to suck on and always has to have her hands by her face.
-Most often, when I'm changing her diaper, she pees all over me
-She smiles in her sleep and I think she is trying to smile at us sometimes
-I love kissing and holding her
-I love her skinny, little spindly body
-She loves to be close to me all the time. This can be hard to get things done so I just put her in a sling across my chest and she falls right asleep.

Life is busy, hectic, and tiring but life with a baby is well worth it! Todd has been amazing to both me and Gabbie and he honestly deserves the husband of the year award. He is always helping out around the house, runs errands, holds Gabbie when I need a break and even gets up at night to change her. He is wonderful and I am so thankful we have him!